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Average is based on spending of other brides and grooms not wedding vendor prices.

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Average is based on spending of other brides and grooms not wedding vendor prices.

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BRIDAL CONSULTANT?  WEDDING PLANNER?

A bridal (wedding) consultant or planner is a professional whose training, expertise and network contacts will help make your wedding as close to perfect as it possibly can be, and let you relax (as much as you can) and enjoy your wedding   …   You can count on a professional consultant and planner to help you in may roles to make your event perfect.

ADVISER

As an expert, the consultant knows weddings and events from the socially correct formats through the proper planning and organization of the reception. 

A professional puts structure into your day.

 

 

COORDINATOR & DIRECTOR

Through extensive contacts in the wedding business.  The unlimited consultant, and/or wedding planner  can match you with the right professional from caterer to photographers, from florist to doves and butterflies, from a disc jockey, to a band or quartet (within budget) to turn your wedding dreams into reality.  Present at the Rehearsal, Wedding Day Ceremony and Reception, plus.

 

SUPERVISOR

Plan the details.  Why should you worry, about the details of planning your wedding?  Your wedding planner will work with the other professionals you have chosen to make sure everything happens just as you want it.  Draw up the pre-ceremony flow chart itinerary.

 

FINANCIAL PLANNER

If you’re working with a budget (and WHO ISN’T) your wedding planner can help you organize your dream wedding with your budget, by suggesting ways to make your dollar go the farthest.

 

MEDIATOR

Caught between “ex”-families and “step”-families?  A professional bridal consultant (planner), as an independent third party often can smooth ruffled feathers and mediate disagreements.

 

THIS IS YOUR ONCE IN-A-LIFETIME DAY!

Let your PROFESSIONAL BRIDAL CONSULTANT - WEDDING PLANNER handle the details with you.  It’s your big day!  A Planner will make certain it turns out perfectly, and you can relax and ENJOY YOUR WEDDING!

 

The following items are included in the total Average Wedding Cost

Average is based on spending of other brides and grooms not wedding vendor prices. Spending and prices can vary widely. You should expect to pay, on average, 50% to 100%+ more when choosing well-experienced professionals, designer labels, popular event locations, unique or custom products and services. Investigate all options and choose products and services that best meet your needs.

 

 

  • Attire & Accessories
    • Bride Accessories
    • Groom Accessories
    • Suit (purchased)
    • Suit (rented)
    • Tuxedo (purchased)
    • Tuxedo (rented)
    • Veil
    • Wedding Dress
    • Wedding Dress Preservation

 

 

  • Beauty, Health & Spa
    • Diet, Weight Loss, Gym
    • Facial
    • Hair Removal
    • Hair Service
    • Makeup Service
    • Manicure & Pedicure
    • Massage
    • Teeth Whitening

 

 

  • Entertainment
    • Dance Lessons
    • DJ
    • Live Band
    • Musician/s, Soloist, or Ensemble

 

 

  • Flowers & Decorations
    • Boutonnieres, Corsages
    • Bridal Bouquet
    • Bridesmaid Bouquets
    • Ceremony Decorations
    • Ceremony Flower Arrangements
    • Flower Girl Flowers
    • Flower Petals
    • Reception Decorations
    • Reception Flower Arrangements
    • Reception Table Centerpieces

 

 

  • Gifts & Favors
    • Gift/s for Attendants
    • Gift/s for Parents
    • Gift/s for the Bride
    • Gift/s for the Groom
    • Wedding Favors

 

  • Invitations
    • Ceremony Programs
    • Guest Book
    • Invitations & Reply Cards
    • Reception Menus
    • Save the Date Cards
    • Table or Place Cards
    • Thank You Cards

 

 

  • Jewelry
    • Earrings
    • Engagement Ring (Not included in Total Average)
    • Necklace
    • Other Jewelry
    • Wedding Band - Bride
    • Wedding Band - Groom

 

 

  • Photography & Video
    • Wedding Photographer
    • Wedding Videographer

 

 

  • Planner/Consultant
    • A La Carte Services
    • Day of Coordinator
    • For Getting Started
    • Full Service
    • Month of Direction

 

 

  • Transportation
    • Limo Rental
    • Other Travel (Antique Car, Horse & Carriage, Etc.)
    • Travel for Guests

 

 

  • Venue & Catering
    • Ceremony Accessories
    • Ceremony Location
    • Ceremony Officiator
    • Hotel Room for After Reception
    • Reception Accessories
    • Reception Bar Service
    • Reception Food Service
    • Reception Location
    • Reception Rentals (Tent, Table, Chairs, Etc.)
    • Rehearsal Dinner
    • Tips
    • Wedding Cake

  

Wedding Invitations & Announcements

Q. When should wedding invitations be ordered?

A. Invitations should be ordered when all of the details of the     ceremony and reception have been confirmed.  Information such as the date, time and place of your service and reception, as well as an accurate guest list count are needed when placing your invitation order.  You should order invitations at least three months before the wedding

 

Q. When should wedding invitations be mailed?

A. Invitations should be mailed approximately 6 to 8 weeks before the ceremony.

 

Q. Are any special arrangements made for out-of-town guests?

A. It is a good idea to send a “save-the-date card” to your out-of-town guests.  This card is usually sent three to four months before the wedding.  This is the first news your guests have of the wedding.  It typically includes information about the wedding and any special accommodations which you have made for them.

 

Q. What are considered traditional invitations?

A. Traditional invitations are white, ivory, or ecru with a panel or with out a panel.  Traditional invitations can be thermographed or engraved.  Thermographed (raised) printed invitations are less expensive and imitate the look of engraving.

 

Q. May guests be invited to the reception and not the wedding itself?

A. Yes, if the wedding service is attended only by relatives and close friends.

 

Q. Are wedding announcements ever sent to anyone who’s been invited to the ceremony or reception?

A. No.  Wedding announcements are only sent to those who were not invited to the ceremony or reception.

 

Q. Are wedding invitation envelopes addressed formally?

A. Yes, abbreviations should not be used except for Mr., Mrs., Jr. or Dr.

 

Q. Is it correct to use “and family” When addressing the invitation envelopes?

A. No. Separate invitations should be sent to adult family members living under the same roof, whenever possible.  For small children, address the outer envelope to their parents and write their first names on the inner envelope under their parent’s names.

 

Q. What is the purpose of the tissue included with my invitation order?

A. In the past, tissues were used to guard against ink smears.  Today’s printing methods ensure ink is dry before invitations leave the printing plant, so the tissues are no longer needed.  However, many continue to use the tissue as part of their wedding ensemble for aesthetic reasons and for the sake of tradition.

 

 

Q. How should the invitation be inserted in the envelopes?

A. The invitation is folded and put in the inner envelope (the smaller envelope) with the folded edge down and the front of the invitation facing the back of the envelope.  The inner envelope is the placed in the outer envelope with the front of the inner envelope facing the back of the outer envelope.

 

Q. When should announcements be mailed?

A. Announcements should be mailed a day or two after the wedding.

 

 

How to Write Your Wedding Vows


Here are a few things that you should keep in mind when you write your own wedding vows:

        1.  Keep your wedding vows concise, yet meaningful.  Too many people will overload a wedding ceremony with verbage that is redundant and overkill the meaning behind a wedding vow.   Don't torture your wedding guests with a long wedding ceremony!   We find it very interesting that the shorter the ceremony, the more guests come up to us afterwards and say, "Oh that was the best ceremony I've ever been to." 

        2. If you can write your own wedding vows from scratch, make sure that you are edited by somebody you trust.  If you pick from our wedding ceremony vow kit you can simply pick the marriage ceremony that fits you, or choose bits of ceremonies that fit how you feel and then add in the wedding poems or wedding songs that move you. 

        3. A sample wedding ceremony program often has these elements:
                1.  The wedding processional (walking down the aisle)
                2.  The opening of the wedding ceremony or call to the guests
                3.   Some words from your wedding minister on love or marriage or wedding poems readings
                4.   The wedding vow or wedding vow and poem
                5.   The ring exchange ( wedding ring exchange vows )
                6.   The pronouncement of marriage
                7.   Blessing or wedding day poem
                8.   The introduction as husband and wife
                9.   The wedding recessional
       

 If you decide that you do not want to do any of these steps listed above in the sample wedding program or put them out of order- - - -it's all your choice.  You can say anything that you want to say that is fitting for your relationship and as long as you both agree to be married somewhere in the wedding program.

        3.  Often a passage that you like, a song,  or a wedding love poem can be included in your marriage ceremony.  A special guest, a member of the wedding party or the wedding minister can recite this wedding poem and reading, but it is not out of the ordinary for the bride or groom to recite or sing a wedding love poem to each other.  When you book your wedding with us we will work with you in the selection of popular wedding day poems, and sample vow choices. 


        4.  Don't be afraid to express how you feel in the context of your wedding vow.  This is the time to do it.  Your wedding ceremony is your expression of love for your partner, it's your pronouncement to the world.  Express yourself in your wedding vows how you would like to remember your wedding ceremony.  And if you are not a poet, as most of us, pick a sample wedding vow that is a beautiful description of who you both are.

 

                                                                                                                                                      

The Wedding

Q. How many ushers and bridesmaids are needed?

A. It depends on the size of the wedding?  Normally, there should be one usher for every 50 guests.  The average wedding party for formal or semi-formal is four to six bridesmaids and ushers.  A bride does not need as many bridesmaids as ushers.

Q. In a formal wedding, which side is usually reserved for the bride’s family and friends?

A. The bride’s parents are seated on the left side of the aisle and the groom’s parents sit on the right side. (in some synagogues this is reversed.)

Q. What if the church has two center aisles?

A. Pick one aisle and run the whole wedding as though it were the only one, or use the right aisle for the processional and the left for the recessional.

Q. Does the groom always kiss the bride at the altar?

A. The person performing the ceremony will rule on it, according to the church practice.

Q. Is there a recessional at a home wedding?

A. It is not necessary.  The married couple may turn around after the ceremony and receive best wishes from the guests.

Q. Who gives the officiant his or her fee?

A. The groom pays, but the best man hands it over in a plain white envelope before or after the ceremony.

 

Q. Where does the wedding party stand in the receiving line?

A. The receiving line is at the back of the church after the ceremony.  The order may vary, but usually the brides mother and father are first, followed by the bride, groom and bridesmaids.  The grooms mother and father may be included.  The ushers and the best man do not stand in the receiving line.

 

 

The Reception

 

Q. At the bride and groom’s table, where does the bride sit?

A. The bride is seated on the groom’s right.

 

Q. With divorced parents who attends the reception?

A. Both may attend if agreeable by all, or separate receptions may be given.

 

Q. Who reads congratulatory telegrams aloud?

A. The best man reads any congratulatory telegrams that are received.

 

Q. Who proposes the first toast?

A. The best man proposes the first toast to the bride and groom.

 

Q. Who cuts the first piece of cake?

A. The bride, with the groom’s right hand over hers, cut the first piece of cake.  They break the slice and eat it together.  A friend or waiter then takes over the slicing of the cake.

 

Q. What happens at the reception if other couples start dancing before the bride and groom?

A. When the newlyweds appear everyone should stop dancing.  Then the bride and groom waltz once around the floor solo.

 

Q. Is the groom obligated to dance with someone besides the bride?

A. Yes, the groom is obligated to dance with his mother, mother-in-law and the maid of honor.

 

The Thank You Notes

Q. Is it necessary to send a thank you note to some one I have thanked in person?

A. It is considered socially correct to always send a written thank you note even if you have thanked someone in person.

 

Q. When should thank you notes be mailed?

A. A written thank you note should be sent as soon as possible after receiving the gift, normally within 2 to 3 weeks of receipt.

 

Q. Is there a tactful way of thanking someone for a monetary gift?

A. When writing a thank you note for money, it is not necessary or advisable to mention the amount.  Instead, refer to it as “your generous gift,” or something similar; mention how you plan to use the money, whether to purchase an appliance or to use it in some other way.

 

Education

Q&A through the Brides eye

Why hire a Wedding Planner?

Why hire a Videographer?

 

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Average is based on spending of other brides and grooms not wedding vendor prices.

Call Nashville Events by Design - Wedding and Event Specialist

for help and assistance to professionally Balance "your individual" personalized targeted Budget

  Phone: 615.562.3535     .    Email